MOMS<\/em>\u2026are the ones who always used to get the \u201cHi Mom<\/em>\u201d on TV from the guys on the bench at college football games. The only signs about dads I used to see were: \u201cDad, send money<\/em>\u201d. Irma Bombeck, a hilarious comedian, said she didn\u2019t know her name wasn\u2019t \u201cBut Mom<\/em>\u201d until all her kids left home for college. I think maybe that was even her personalized license plate.<\/p>\n As I was pondering the roles of moms and dads recently, this thought hit me. So, guys, why is that? Well, for starters, I\/we seem to always be \u2018messing up\u2019 so someone has to clean up. Do you agree or at least can you relate? Men\/dads have the propensity to operate out of pride and ego, sorta caveman mentality. Many of us are like the \u2018bull in the china closet\u2019. \u2018My way or no way!\u2019 We also are most likely not as well informed about the issues of our children like our wives. They listen, observe; we talk and usually out of ignorance. Okay dads, are you feeling \u2018put upon\u2019 about right now? Me too, and I\u2019m writing this thing.<\/p>\n Well, how do we remedy this situation? We can try harder, but that usually fails. We can ask forgiveness, but that gets very tiring and embarrassing. And honestly, asking forgiveness is a difficult thing for most men. So, how? May I suggest a prayerful lifestyle, turning over your family to the One who created them, knows all about them, loves them more than you, wants the very best for them, plans to use them, and has the power to make them into His image.<\/em> That way, you can\u2019t \u2018mess\u2019 it up. That is, unless you try to take it back over.<\/p>\n But there is one thing you must<\/span> be willing to do. Be patient and wait on God.<\/strong><\/em> You are probably asking; Bill, do you have that mastered? A resounding NO! But it is so key to leading your family well without \u2018messing up\u2019 continually. By doing this, you are shifting the responsibility to the One who can<\/span> handle everything without \u2018messing up\u2019. Pray, believing, trusting his divine and sovereign nature to accomplish his will for your wife and children.<\/p>\n You still have responsibilities, but you can fulfill them in and through his omnipotence, omniscience and omnipresence. We are limited, he is not! And is he ever pleased when he finds a man\/dad who really wants to trust him, maybe not perfectly, but one who pursues it. Here\u2019s a truth that really has helped me in my walk. \u201c<\/strong>I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living! Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!\u201d<\/strong><\/em> (Psa. 27.13-14 ESV).<\/p>\n You work while you wait, trusting him for the desired results. Then the process and the results don\u2019t get \u2018messed up\u2019. For a number of years I start the day covering every member of my family with a specific prayer. I also petition and intercede for them about specific issues, but only after I have placed them safely in his care. You prayerfully develop your own. Here\u2019s the outline of mine. Remember, dads\/granddads, you are the earthly high priest of your family. A privilege and responsibility!<\/p>\n Today Lord, I thank you for covering my family with your banner of love; thank you for surrounding them with your holy angels; thank you for anointing my family with the atoning blood of Jesus, your Son, our Savior; thank you for sealing and filling my family with your Holy Spirit and doing in my family what you want to do through us; thank you for clothing my family in your full armor; thank you for prayer that my family might be prayerful, watchful and alert; thank you for allowing my family to be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord; thank you for leading my family in paths of righteousness for your namesake; thank you for preserving my family from all evil, preserving their soul, preserving their going out and their coming in from this time forth and even forevermore.<\/em><\/p>\n While the moms may still have to \u2018mop up\u2019 behind you occasionally, it will most likely be less often and less messy. 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\n\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u201cMoms mop up when dads mess up.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/em>
\nAt least at my house, in my family, it is a much experienced and proven fact. Well documented! She\u2019s worn out a whole lot of mops over 60 years.<\/p>\nPrayer<\/h3>\n
Work while you wait<\/h3>\n